Community Guidelines

Last updated: May 2026

Tabsly is a home for adults — 18+ only. These guidelines describe what belongs here, what doesn't, and how we act on reports.

Who can use Tabsly

Tabsly is restricted to adults aged 18 or older. Age is confirmed at sign-in and recorded on your account. Any account we identify as being held by a minor is removed and its data is deleted.

What belongs here

Product reviews and discussion
Honest, useful information about diapers, brands, sizes, and fit. Disagreements about products are fine; personal attacks on other users are not.
Wear logs and journals
Your own data, tracked for yourself. Sharing with linked contacts is opt-in and time-scoped.
Community resources
Sample-pack lists, event recaps, packing guides, beginner tips, medical resources. Help the community help the community.
Self-identity
Your bio, status, and profile tags are yours to write. Tabsly never assigns you a role.

What doesn't belong here

We remove content and accounts that violate any of the following. Violations of the first three are immediate, permanent bans and are reported to law enforcement where applicable.

Anything involving minors
No content depicting, describing, or sexualising anyone under 18. No pretending to be a minor. No roleplay framed around real children. Zero tolerance. Reported to NCMEC and applicable authorities.
Sexually explicit content
Tabsly is not a porn platform. No explicit nudity, no sexual acts, no fetish content shot for arousal. Lifestyle content — including diaper photography and wear documentation — is allowed when it isn't sexually explicit.
Illegal content
No drug sales, weapons, stolen goods, doxxing, or content that violates anyone's rights. No content depicting non-consensual acts.
Harassment and hate
No personal attacks, slurs, or content targeting people for their identity. Community-internal disagreements are normal; harassment isn’t.
Impersonation
Don't pretend to be a real person you aren't, including brand representatives, moderators, or other Tabsly members.
Spam and scams
No promotional spam, multi-level marketing, affiliate-link farms, phishing, or "click here to win" content.
Personal information
Don’t share anyone’s personal information without their consent — yours included. Use a username, not your legal name, if you prefer.

How we moderate

Reporting
Every user-facing piece of content — reviews, profiles, comments, notes — has a Report button. Use it. Reports are reviewed by the Tabsly team.
Response time
Reports involving minors or imminent safety risk are reviewed within 24 hours. Other reports are reviewed within 7 days. Both targets are continuously tracked.
Actions we take
Depending on severity: a warning, content removal, account suspension, permanent ban, or referral to law enforcement.
Appeals
If your content is removed in error, contact us — see the Privacy Policy for how to reach the team. We review every appeal.
Proactive review
We monitor reports for patterns and act on accounts that accumulate them, even if individual reports don’t cross the threshold.

Linked contacts and shared content

Tabsly lets you link with a trusted contact (a partner, friend, or someone you've agreed to share data with) and grant time-scoped access to your wear logs, notes, and photos. All linking is two-sided — both users must accept the link. All photo sharing is opt-in per session and auto-expires. You can revoke access at any time. Linked contacts are treated as a private, mutually-consenting feature; the platform does not assign or define the nature of the relationship.

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